If you’re a man who wants to look like a woman, it requires a combination of makeup, clothing, grooming and a few technical tricks. Here’s a comprehensive guide with daily tips for crossdressers:
1. Skin care
- Daily cleansing: Cleanse your face morning and evening with a gentle cleanser to remove impurities and keep skin fresh.
- Moisturizer: Use a moisturizer daily to keep your skin soft and supple. Make sure to use products that suit your skin type.
- Shave: Shave regularly to ensure smooth skin. If you have a very thick beard, shaving in the morning and evening may be necessary.
- Exfoliation: Use an exfoliator once a week to remove dead skin cells and renew the skin.
2. Personal care
- Hair removal: Regular hair removal is important to maintain smooth skin. This can be achieved by shaving, waxing or using depilatory creams.
- Nail care: Keep your fingernails and toenails clean and well-groomed. A light nail oil helps keep the cuticles soft.
- Personal hygiene: A pleasant scent is crucial. Use a scented shower gel, deodorant and, if necessary, a feminine perfume.
3. Make-up
- Primer: Use a primer to prepare the skin and a foundation that matches your skin tone to achieve an even complexion. Concealer can be used to cover dark circles or brow bone.
- Contouring: Use contouring techniques to change the structure of the face and emphasize more feminine features. Apply highlighter to the cheekbones, bridge of the nose and under the eyebrows.
- Eye makeup: Apply eye shadow to accentuate your eyes, eyeliner for a more precise shape and mascara to lengthen your lashes. Optionally, you can also use false eyelashes.
- Eyebrows: Shape your eyebrows regularly to achieve a feminine shape. Fill them in with an eyebrow pencil or powder to make them look more defined.
- Lips: Apply lipstick or lip gloss in a color that matches your look. Lip liner can help accentuate the shape of the lips.
4. Clothing
- Shapewear: Use shapewear to shape your silhouette and create more feminine proportions. A bra with padding can help simulate a breast shape.
- Clothing choices: Choose clothes that accentuate your feminine features. Skirts, dresses and form-fitting tops are often a good choice.
- Shoes: High heels lengthen the legs and give a more feminine posture. Make sure you can walk safely in them.
- Accessories: Jewelry, handbags and scarves can add the finishing touches to your look. Experiment with different styles to find what suits you best.
5. Wigs and hair styling
- Wig: Choose a wig that flatters your face. The right color and length can make a big difference. Make sure to take good care of the wig.
- Hairstyling: If you have long hair, experiment with different hairstyles that look feminine, such as curls or updos.
6. Voice and attitude
- Voice training: Practice regularly to develop a more feminine voice. This requires patience and possibly professional support.
- Body language: Pay attention to your posture and movements. Female gestures are often gentler and more graceful.
7. Self-confidence
- Practice, practice, practice: practice makes perfect. Experiment with different looks and techniques until you feel comfortable.
- Patience: Be patient with yourself. It takes time to master all the techniques and achieve the desired appearance.
- Self-love: Accept and value yourself. Self-confidence is the key to a convincing and appealing appearance.
This guide is a starting point and everyone will find their own style and techniques. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable in your skin and have fun creating your look.
